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Ralph C.
Zagrabbe
March 4, 1950 – April 1, 2026
Ralph Conrad Zagrabbe, 76, of Gladwyne, Pennsylvania, passed away on April 1, 2026. Born on March 4, 1950, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, to the late Ralph and Elvira Zagrabbe, he lived a life marked by intellect, warmth, and an unwavering devotion to those he loved.
Ralph's early years were rooted in the close-knit neighborhood of South Philadelphia, where he attended St. Monica School and then St. John Neumann High School. He distinguished himself as a star student, senior class president, accomplished debater, and standout on the football field. He graduated from Princeton University in 1972 with an A.B. in English. At Princeton, he enrolled in the ROTC and played on the freshman football team. His proudest accomplishment at Princeton was re-establishing the eating club Dial Lodge, which became the social center for him and his closest friends throughout their college years.
Following graduation, Ralph served honorably in the United States Navy for four years. He then embarked on a long and successful career in finance in the Philadelphia area. He concluded his professional life at Cantor Fitzgerald in 2013.
In 1986, Ralph married the love of his life, Maryellen. He died only days before their 40th wedding anniversary. Together they raised two children. He was a proud and dedicated father. He treasured summers spent with his family in Stone Harbor, New Jersey. Ralph had a deep appreciation for German automobiles, Philadelphia sports teams, and above all, a good Italian meal.
Ralph was gregarious and kind. His sharp wit and humor brought a smile to everyone who knew him, whether it was one of his longtime childhood friends or a stranger he had met only a moment before.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Maryellen Whalen Zagrabbe; his daughter, Kathryn Zagrabbe, and son-in-law, Matthew Wellenbach; his son, Peter Zagrabbe; two grandchildren; his sister, Norma Iatarola; and his brother-in-law, Antonio Ranalli. He was preceded in death by his parents; his sister, Olivia Ranalli; his brother-in-law, Anthony Iatarola; and his brother-in-law, Joseph Whalen, Jr.
In his final years, Ralph was lovingly cared for by the dedicated staff at Westgate Hills Rehabilitation and Nursing Center in Havertown, Pennsylvania, whose compassion brought comfort to his family.
A Visitation will be held on Thursday, April 9, 2026, from 9:45 to 10:45 AM at St. John Vianney Church, 350 Conshohocken State Road, Gladwyne, Pennsylvania, followed by a Funeral Mass at 11:00 AM. Interment will follow at Calvary Cemetery in West Conshohocken, Pennsylvania.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in his name to the Eagles Autism Foundation
Ralph will be dearly missed by his wife, children, family, and friends. We know that even with his passing, he would remind us at this difficult time to remember his favorite phrase: "Onward and upward."
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