Paul D. Flanigan, Sr.

Paul David Flanigan Sr., known as "Hook" to his golfing buddies and "Grumps" to his grandchildren passed away on Tuesday, November 10, 2026. Paul was a man who knew what he liked: a good round of golf at Aronimink, a VO Canadian whiskey or two, a great meal, the Philadelphia Phillies ballpark, and, most of all, his family. Not necessarily in that order, depending on the day.

Paul was born on February 23, 1937, and grew up in Narberth, Pennsylvania, the son of Hugh and Helen Flanigan, alongside his four siblings. He was preceded in death by his parents, his brother Hugh, his sister Kathy, and his former wife, Mary Ann Bruder Flanigan. In addition to his eight children and their families, he is survived by his brother Barry and sister-in-law Kathi, and his sister Barbara and brother-in-law Dick, as well as many nieces and nephews.

Paul was the proud father of eight children: Mary Ann Wagner (Don), Chrissy Flanigan, Tracy O'Connor (Michael), Paul Flanigan Jr. (Julie), Shauna Flanigan, Megan Flanigan, Katie Flanigan, and Jamie Sullivan (Ryan). Paul spent many summers with Mary Ann and their children at Hook’s Nook in Longport, New Jersey. He became Grumps to 15 grandchildren and one great-granddaughter. And yes, he really did choose the name Grumps himself; Grandpa somehow didn't fit.

Aronimink Golf Club was one of Paul’s favorite places, particularly the Men’s Grill and the patio overlooking the first tee. One of his favorite events was playing the Fourth of July Derby. Hook enjoyed the game of golf, the friendships, and the opportunity for a good meal and a VO afterward.

Paul loved a family vacation, particularly the ski trips he took with his children and other members of his family. He was known for his signature move of packing a whole ham, a roast beef, and scrapple in his suitcase and making breakfast and dinner for everyone.

In his later years, Paul became the “fix-it man” at Citizens Bank Park. He looked forward to Opening Day so he could get back to work with his ever-present screwdriver in his back pocket. His coworkers in the ballpark became like a second family to him, even calling him Grumps.

Paul thoroughly enjoyed being with his family. He wanted his family to be together, whether it was for a holiday, a meal, a vacation, or simply an excuse to get together.

Paul was especially fortunate to have the extraordinary love and care of his daughters and roommates Chrissy and Shauna. Their devotion to him and their companionship made it possible for him to enjoy his later years surrounded by love, laughter, and the comforts of family and home.

Paul lived life on his own terms, right down to picking his own grandfather name. He leaves behind a big family, a lifetime of memories, and more than a few stories. Grumps arrived above with a scheduled tee time, with 142 days until the Phillies Home Opener, a poured VO, and some type of meat in his suitcase. He did his best!

Relatives and friends are invited on Tuesday November 17, 2026 -  Visitation from 9:30 a.m. until 10:30 a.m. with Mass of Christian Burial to follow at 10:30 a.m. at St. Anastasia Catholic Church, 3301 West Chester Pike, Newtown Square, PA 19073.  

The family requests that memorial contributions be made to SpeakUp! at www.speakup.org